The telltale signs below are just as valid for women as they are for men, so read 'he/she' wherever 'he' is used. A sexologist takes a look at some of the classic signs of cheating:
- There are changes in his behaviour and routines.
- He begins exercising, especially jogging. (He may be heading for another woman’s house.)
- He stops having sex with you, initiates more sex, or begins new sex behaviours.
- He starts watching what he eats or goes on a diet.
- He buys new clothes.
- He gets nervous when the phone rings. When he answers it, he speaks softly.
- He works late unusually often and over weekends.
- He finds reasons to stay away overnight.
- If he travels for business, he won’t share his itinerary, flight or hotel information.
- He goes off alone for periods during the weekend, giving some lame excuse.
- He gets nasty or defensive when you ask him when he’ll be home or where is he going.
- He begins misplacing credit card receipts, phone bills, cell phone printouts, etc.
- He leaves his cell phone on voice mail.
- He heads for the shower, or brushes his teeth, the minute he enters the house.
- He is usually secretive about his schedule and the people he sees.
- When you phone him at work, he won’t take your calls, or he cuts you off.
-He isn’t where he says he is going to be.
-He stops taking you to job – related social events. If he does, his co–workers act differently towards you.
-He gives jewellery or flowers, when he hasn’t done so before. These are guilt-relieving presents.
-His moods are erratic. Living with him is like being on a rollercoaster.
-He starts criticising your looks.
-He starts reading books about sex.
-You receive strange phone calls, such as: “I think you should know about your husband”.
-If he has worn a wedding band, he stops doing so.
-When you are out together, he seems more flirtatious than usual with other women.
-He begins to lock his drawers; he doesn’t want you to touch any of his belongings.
-He starts doing his own laundry.
-He is overly protective of his wallet and briefcase.
-He no longer wants you to accompany him on out–of–town trips.
-He begins talking in his sleep and is generally more restless than usual.
-He starts making positive comments about one particular woman.
-He starts carrying condoms in his travelling bag.
-He clams up and shuts down completely when you ask him anything about himself.
-He feels like a brick wall when you try to hug him.
-He stops being affectionate.
-He stays so far from you in bed at night that he almost falls out of the other side.
-He begins sleeping in a spare bedroom, citing “sleep disturbance”.
-He is unusually short–tempered and irritable.
-He seems distant from you and preoccupied most of the time.
-He tells you he needs his privacy and suggests you go away for a while.
-He is indifferent to you or ignores you completely.
-He is even less communicative than usual.
-He is unusually cold and distant.
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